Break-cycle

I like walking at my kids soccer practices but yesterday I didn’t have time to go home and change into walking clothes and since I didn’t look how I was supposed to I almost didn’t do one of the few things that makes me feel better.

But I caved and decided to walk in my non-walking shoes and non-walking clothes in the non-fall weather all while swearing off of summer for the rest of time and wondering whose rules of “should” I keep trying to follow.

I guess one day someone with clout said this is how we do things and the masses blindly followed and now all of us non-clout cycle breakers are here to ask “but why?” and customize our own way doing things.

Healing is listening to what OUR mind and body are asking for and responding to that. It may not look the way it “should” but the beauty is in learning to trust ourselves and letting it look the way it looks.

Keep going, warriors. I promise you’ll be glad you did 💚