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Dear Diary

Well I’ve been off of social media for 27 days now. Like off, off. Like not even logging in to check something real quick, off. Which is approximately 27 days after I claimed I was getting off social media. I guess I would say I had to taper off of the socials. I mean give…

An Open Letter to Dove Cameron

*Trigger warning: this post discusses suicide. If you need a lifeline, call or text the Suicide and Crisis Lifeline at 988.* Dear Dove Cameron, I just stumbled across an interview you did on the Call Her Daddy podcast. In the interview you talked about your parents. You said your mom was the perfect mom (by…

Hey, Quick Question

If you know me then you are privy to the fact that I tend to ask a lot of questions. Like a lot of questions. Like a lot, a lot. Like no matter the subject at hand, I have multiple questions. I do try to take into account that the sheer volume of questions loaded…

Measly Meta

This is old news now but with a new point. I got off the Big 3 socials (for the 12th time) in October- in the midst of writing book number two and wanting to build a larger audience.  I’ve been hemming and hawing how on earth I’m going to promote my words and how in…

Winter Wonderland

I’ve always loved winter and anything that makes me feel as comfy and as cozy as we. In fact, it’s my second favorite season next to Autumn and I’ll die on that hill because Fall is the best of all. Anyway. Over the last few years, I began to realize the online world packaging and…

You’re Invited!

Here’s a fact most of us don’t want to say because it makes us sound bitter and jaded but I’m going to say it anyway because- well maybe I am bitter and jaded. But when I reflect on this truth I don’t do it with bitterness in my heart; I do it with an understanding and acceptance…

Call Me Comfortable

We talk about comfort like it’s this boring thing to avoid. We should want adventure. Crave adventure. Pursue adventure.  Like adventure is the goal. We should want to travel and explore and not settle down because settling down is the beginning of losing yourself and the worst thing you can do is lose yourself in…

Burn Baby, Burn

F.Y.I. And if you are or you’re in a relationship with a woman then you know exactly the tone in which I’m saying Eff. Why. Eye. Sometimes we can’t do it all. Actually, never can we ever do it all. But if you’re anything like me then you’ll try. And you’ll keep trying until you…

Oh for Fork’s Sake

I hate summer now and I didn’t used to. But my kids love it and I wanted to reclaim some of that joy and I think that joy is found in the moment to moment choices where we decide whether we’re gonna be rushed or take our time, where we’re gonna be present or preoccupied,…

Nit-pic Table

Never have I ever been the type to enjoy the process. And take all your journeying and give me all the destinations because I just enjoy the part where it is done. After hemming and hawing for almost 2 years over a replacement patio table because ours was sun worn enough to disintegrate beneath our…